The rear delts usually get neglected, but this is a pretty easy fix and one you can do at home on a daily basis. The band pull-apart will bring your sad little finger-sized rear delts up to snuff quickly.
You don't need a heavy-duty resistance band because you're going to keep the reps high. Rock bottom rep range is 20, done for 4-5 sets daily.
It seems like you've been adding weight to the stack each time you do triceps pushdowns. The veins in your neck stick out like a garden hose as you power through the sticking point, and the cable starts cutting into your neck, just like your idol, Tom Platz. You stop, however, before it cuts through and leaves a bloody mess on the floor.